Anger
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Rage After Resilience: Why the Strongest People Break the Loudest
On paper, some of the clients I’ve sat across from seem unwavering. In the Rage After Resilience pattern, they oversee teams, homes, loans, ageing parents, and everyone’s emotions. They respond promptly, arrive early, smile courteously, and carry their lives like a well-balanced tray at a crowded wedding. The tray then falls one day. It can…
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The Game of Reactions: It’s Your Reactions That Define Your Day
I have coached people who earn seven figures and people who are rebuilding their lives from scratch. Strangely, the same small villain shows up in both stories: the game of reactions, where an unexamined reaction quietly takes the driver’s seat and starts steering the day. Not the event. Not the traffic. Not the colleague’s tone.…
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Breaking Free: How to Recognise and Overcome Toxic Relationships
Toxic relationships are like slow poison. You don’t realise how deeply it’s destroying you—until one day, you wake up feeling like a ghost in your own life. It suffocates your identity, erodes your self-worth, and blurs your vision of what love and respect should look like. But here’s the truth: you were not born to…
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Healing From Heartbreak: Letting Go of Guilt and Self-Blame After Betrayal
Betrayal can leave deep emotional wounds that take time and effort to heal. When someone we trust and care about breaks that trust, it’s natural to feel a range of emotions, including guilt and self-blame. But, holding onto these negative feelings can hinder our healing process and prevent us from moving forward. Let’s explore how…