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  • Why We Chase People Who Do Not Want Us

    Why We Chase People Who Do Not Want Us

    Why do so many of us ignore the people who love us and obsess over the ones who hold back? This article explores the psychology, neuroscience and emotional wounds behind attraction to unavailable people, and why healthy love can feel strangely unsettling.


  • Love Without Attachment: The Valentine’s Day Lesson Nobody Teaches

    Love Without Attachment: The Valentine’s Day Lesson Nobody Teaches

    Valentine’s Day has a talent for turning quiet love into loud expectations. Suddenly, romance becomes measurable. Did you plan enough? Did you post enough? Did you spend enough? Did you read their mind accurately enough to choose the “right” thing? And somewhere between the roses and the receipts, something more delicate gets trampled: the difference…


  • When “Too Much Love” Is Actually a Wound: Understanding Obsession in Relationships

    When “Too Much Love” Is Actually a Wound: Understanding Obsession in Relationships

    Some people show overloving behaviour like they’re trying to keep a candle alive in a storm. They text a lot, check in constantly, remember tiny details you forgot you ever shared. Their care can feel like warmth, until it starts to feel like weight. And somewhere between “Aww” and “Arrey yaar”, you begin wondering if…


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