grief
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Life is a Movie: The Freedom of Not Taking the Drama Personally
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The overachiever’s secret panic: when doing more is how you survive
I meet them in coaching rooms all the time. People who do not fall apart. They optimise. This high-functioning trauma response can look like ambition on the outside, and feel like quiet survival on the inside. They arrive on time, reply fast, remember everything, and handle crises with the calm of an air-traffic controller. Their…
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You’re Not Afraid of Death. You’re Afraid of Losing What You Think Is Yours
I often hear people say, “I’m scared of death.” It sounds honest, even brave. But in coaching rooms and quiet conversations, a different confession emerges. What they fear is not the last breath. What they fear is the stripping away—the fear of loss: of identity, connection, control, meaning, and the life they recognize as their…