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Why we chase people who do not want us, anxious attachment style, emotional unavailability, trauma bonding, self-worth and unhealthy relationship patterns

Why We Chase People Who Do Not Want Us

Why do so many of us ignore the people who love us and obsess over the ones who hold back? This article explores the psychology, neuroscience and emotional wounds behind attraction to unavailable people, and why healthy love can feel strangely unsettling.