psychology of love
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Love or Lust? The Mind’s Trickiest Illusion Explained
I once sat across a friend who had that unmistakable post-date glow—the one where pupils dilate, voice softens, and rational thought takes a leave of absence. She said, “I think I’m in love.” I smiled, because I’ve said that too, and later realised I might’ve just been in a biological sugar rush. Love and hormones—what…
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Why We Keep Backups in Love and How It’s Ruining Intimacy
It feels as if everyone is keeping their suitcase half-packed these days. People enter relationships carrying exit strategies in their back pockets. They don’t move in with their whole heart; they rent a room with flexible terms. Somewhere along the way, commitment stopped meaning “I’m here” and started meaning “I’m here, until I’m not.” I’ve…